Dressed in a bow tie and tiny silver suit, little Sanele Masilela exchanged rings with Helen Shabangu, who is already married and a mother-of-five, in front of 100 guests and even kissed the bride.
Masilela, who is from Tshwane, South Africa, the youngest of five children, said he had been told by his dead ancestors to wed and his family, fearing divine retribution, organised the wedding for him..
They paid £500 for the bride and a further £1,000 for the wedding, which was organised in just two months.
It’s already shocked the community but the family has defended the ceremony, saying it was just a ritual and not legally binding.
Given away: Sanele walks to his wedding with his mother as people look on. The ceremony shocked some people in the community
“By doing this we made the ancestors happy. If we hadn’t done what my son had asked then something bad would have happened in the family. I didn’t have a problem with it because I know it’s what the ancestors wanted and it would make them happy.”
The widow, who works at a recycling centre, added: “ I would say that this is not wrong. Sanele was fine and he was happy about the ceremony and it was what he wanted. He was happy to get married and very excited.”
Sanele and his bride did not sign a marriage certificate and do not have to live together. Both have gone back to their normal lives.Sanele said he hoped he would have a proper wedding to a woman of his own age when he was older.
He added: “I told my mother that I wanted to get married because I really did want to. I’m happy that I married Helen but I will go to school and study hard.When I’m older I will marry a lady my own age.”
Despite being old enough to be his grandmother, bride Helen, whose children are aged between 37 and 27, was happy with the arrangement.
Helen, who also works at a recycling centre, said: “I’m married and have five kids of my own, but I know that this is what the ancestors wanted and now they are happy. It is a ritual. We are just playing now, but it is a sign that he will get married one day.” Her husband of 30 years, Alfred, 65, said: “My kids and I are happy. We don’t have problems with it but some of the community members were shocked.”
Eight-Year
Old Sanele Masilela walks down the aisle with his 61-year-old bride
Helen Shabangu at their wedding ceremony in Tshwane, South Africa
- The big day: Mrs Shabangu is already married and has five children with Alfred, a builder
With this ring: The boy’s family say the wedding was simply a ritual and not recognised in law
Ceremony:
The schoolboy kisses his 61-year-old bride, who is already married and a
mother of five. He said he had been told to tie the knot by his
ancestors
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