Wednesday, December 25, 2013

Should I tell his bride what we did last night?

Too bad just got this Mail now..hope it's not late.Her case is on another level and I trust you all to give her the perfect advice...
<<Cube, Saturday is my bestfriend's wedding but last night I went to her fiancee's house to collect something for her. One thing led to another and he told me he had always fancied me and wished he met me first. We had sex twice. This morning, I told him if he loved me he should tell her how he fancies me and he said I'm a whore and a prostitute. I'm a decent girl and this idoit feels he can just use me. I feel so bad and I want to tell my friend what we did because she is marrying an asshole and a fool.
She feels he is perfect. Please help me ask your readers what I should do. I'm tempted to tell her today..!

10 Signs You’re Dating The Wrong Person


Do you have any exes who were so awful you can’t help wondering, “What the hell was I thinking?” Join the club. If you’d like to make sure you’re with Mr. or Ms. Right, watch out for these 10 signs you’re dating the wrong person

1. You feel like you have to wear a mask.

If you’re putting on a song-and-dance in an elaborate attempt to impress your partner, you might be dating the wrong person

Your partner should love you as you are. Does it feel like they are trying to mold you into an entirely different person? If so, it might be time to let them go.

2. They think the world revolves around them.

If it seems like your partner is more interested in how you fit in their world than they are with your individual needs, you might be dating the wrong person.

Even though you just went to his parents’ house for Thanksgiving last year, he gets upset when you suggest visiting your parents this year. Despite the fact that she knows you haven’t had a night out with the guys in over a month because work’s been so busy, she pitches a fit because you’re not spending time with her. If your partner’s words and actions scream, “ME-ME-ME,” you should find someone who appreciates your needs (and not only theirs).

3. Your friends and family haven’t met them.

If you haven’t introduced your partner to your friends or family despite spending a decent amount of time together, you might be dating the wrong person.

Let’s just face it, shall we? There are only a few reasons why you wouldn’t introduce your partner to your friends or family, and none of them are pretty. If you’re so embarrassed by this person that you don’t want to invite them into your social circles, do everyone a favor and pull the plug.

4. They don’t really listen to you.

If your partner is always waiting for their turn to speak, you might be dating the wrong person.

They always go off on tangents about their day at work, but never seem interested in yours. They always suggest where they’d like to go, but never seem to care what you think. If your partner does a whole lot of speaking (but never listens), you might want to find someone not so self-centered to share your life with.

5. Hanging out with them drains you.

If spending time with your partner exhausts you, you might be dating the wrong person.

Even the best of relationship include the occasional fight, but this should be the exception, not the norm. You should feel happy and alive with your partner, not sad and stuck.

6. You avoid difficult conversations.

If every difficult chat gets swept under the rug, you might be dating the wrong person.

Should you bring up things like politics, religion, favorite intimate positions, or your desire to have five children on the first date? Probably not. But as the weeks and months and years go on, it becomes more and more important to have those tough (but necessary) conversations. If you want to have children but your partner doesn’t, you might have a problem. If your religion is a top priority but your partner is anything but a devout follower, you need to have a chat. If there’s something the matter, say so (because no, your partner isn’t a psychic).

7. Your relationship is their one and only interest.

If your partner has no hobbies or interests outside of your relationship, you might be dating the wrong person.

Who would want to date a person who isn’t passionate about anything? Tread carefully if your partner has zero life goals, because relationships with a person lacking ambition are anything but fulfilling. And that brings us to…

8. They expect 24/7 Companionship.

If your partner is so clingy you want to scream, you might be dating the wrong person.

It is unhealthy and unwise to expect a person to be your singular source of happiness. Alone time isn’t merely just something that would be nice to have, but rather a necessity for your mental health.

9. You never feel like you’re “good enough.”

If your partner never has anything nice to say, you might be dating the wrong person.

No matter how hard you try, you feel like you can’t do anything right. No matter how much you do, you feel like you always have to prove yourself. No matter how much you love them, you feel like they don’t return the feeling.

10. You can’t imagine a future together without laughing or crying.

If the thought of a life-long commitment makes you want to curl up in a ball and weep, you might be dating the wrong person.

I know the thought of being alone might not appeal to you, but staying in a relationship that is destined for failure is as silly as it gets. If you have no future with this person, end the relationship and find someone you can be happy with.

Are you dating the right person? I hope this list helps you find out. Leave a comment with any additional signs you think we should be on the look-out for.

Why You Shouldn't Check Your Partner’s Phone


Relationships are based on trust and if you have been tempted to snoop on your partner for whatever reason, it indicates that you don't trust him completely.
If you have a reason to doubt your partner, then there's something seriously wrong and needs to be resolved at the earliest.


Why should you avoid checking your partner's phone?
It's a breach of trust: Instead of making things worse by snooping on your partner and secretly going through his phone, it's best to eliminate all doubts by talking to him about your concerns.

A niggling doubt will only give rise to more suspicions:
If you choose to ignore your doubts, they will eat you up from the inside and will influence every decision you make, which will be detrimental to your relationship in the long run.

What you see is not always true: 
Texts and emoticons can be interpreted in different ways. Sometimes, being quick to assume things without checking the facts can destroy a good relationship.

If you feel you have to keep an eye on him, you are Dealing with major issues: 
Trust is the foundation of any relationship, and if you don't have that, it's a sign that there is something seriously wrong. While no one is asking you to blindly believe whatever is being told to you, if there is even the slightest room for doubt, you should be asking yourself why. Also, think seriously about whether you should continue with the relationship or not.

Cecil Chinyere shares adorable New Photos


The SuperModel and CEO, Chyni Creations shared these photos on her FB page a few hours ago...


 


And a few crazy sides too... :)

Merry Christmas To You From Cubaze Mykelz' Blog

 
 
LOL, y'all better read the message and don't laugh at my ugly face.
Its been a journey like no other, the good the bad and the sad, but all in all, we are extremely grateful to the Most High God for the achievements we've reached this year. Merry Christmas to you all CMB readers. 
 
Wanna use this opportunity to say Special thanks to MTN Nig, Amstel Malta, Etisalat Nig, Famed-Up, Orange Media, our numerous clients, entire staff, CMB readers, Photo Journalists, Friends and Fellow Bloggers. Thank you for making it thus far with CMB, there's no me without you. Y'all are just awesome.
 
By God's infinite Grace, we shall all be here to celebrate many more of days like this together.
May our homes and our lives be filled with love, peace and joy this season. May good tidings abide with each and everyone of us. 

 Whatever you also decide to do in your lives will reap bountiful harvest by God's Grace and you shall all exceed beyond your expectations. Favour shall find you where you least expect and long life and prosperity will never be far from your home.
 
WISHING YOU A MERRY SWEET XMAS AND AN EXQUISITE NEW YEAR IN ADVANCE...!!!

GRAPHIC PHOTO : Woman Caught With Dead New Born Baby Inside Waste Sack

A 40-year-old widow identified as Mujidat was caught on Wednesday with a dead day old baby hidden in a sack around her home at 2, Reverend Alimi street, NEPA phase 1, Ijagemo in Iba local council development area of Lagos state.
The mother of five was caught by a high Chief, Babatunde Balogun a member of the community when she was trying to dispose the baby at about 5p.m on Wednesday.

According to report, when Balogun questioned her on the content of the sack, she said it contained household items which bought from the market but when he looked closely, he noticed it was a dead day old baby which the woman had allegedly just delivered.
That was when he raised an alarm calling the attention of other residents.
Mujidat said she didn’t see the need of going to any hospital to deliver as she found delivery easy and therefore claimed to have done everything herself.
It was gathered that different men have been visiting her home after the death of her husband three years ago.
When asked if she planned to throw away the baby because of an alleged paternity mess, she denied, claiming  that a welder turned block maker near her residence was responsible for the pregnancy that resulted in the birth of the dead baby she was caught with. .
Officials of the Community Development Association, CDA, in the area later accompanied the woman and her sack of baby to the Isheri-Oshun Police Division where the matter was reported.
At the time of this report, the woman was still being interrogated.

SWAG BATTLE - Wizkid's Son (Boluwatife) vs Peter Okoye's Son (Cameron)


Look at these cool kids stylishly dressed with swag to rival any other. To the left is Peter Okoye's son Cameron and on the right is Wizkid Balogun's son Boluwatife. They are both dope and i'm sure they will drive the ladies crazy when they are of age. Who out of this two have got the hottest swag.